I can't believe men who think that giving their sperm, even through the act of sex, makes them a father. Us men do not carry the baby. What makes us fathers, is bringing up a child, and all the more if we are present during pregnancy.
"The key thing for me was just to be able to decide when, and if, I would start a family."
I think it is an abuse of power, and extremely immature of this man to claim the right to determine how his sperm is used. He has given the sperm, he made the decision at the time. I would tell him to grow up and stop being such a narcissist. No doubt other men will disagree, and I don't mind reading their comments.
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